Sunday, July 11, 2010

Make a Guy Fall in Love With the Real You

Are you aching to make a guy fall in love with the real you? Do you know you already possess everything you need to make a guy go crazy for you? Are you ready for true love? If you think you are, then here's some advice that will not only point you in the right direction, it will help you get what you want and make a guy fall in love with you.

Firstly we have to tackle the issue of emotions. You don't have to read 'Women are from Venus and Men are from Mars' to know that when it comes to emotions, men and women have different triggers and very different ways of dealing with those triggers. While men like to keep things simple and uncomplicated, women want the opposite.

After a hard week at work, men like to go out with their mates, cruise bars, drink, laugh and ogle gorgeous women. If the night goes well, they'll be lucky enough to score a gorgeous woman and get her home to his bed. This qualifies as a successful night out for a guy. For a woman however, it means something totally different. Forget the fact that we had a sexual revolution and women can pick and choose men in much the same way men can. Underneath the bravado, a woman rarely sleeps with a guy she doesn't like and som even hope that the one-night stand can become something meaningful. Whether she admits it or not, secretly she hopes her act of love might make a guy fall in love.

From a woman's point of view, this is a total and utter waste of time. One thing that both men and women agree on is that one-night stands have nothing to do with love and everything to do with lust. While both men and women can happily fall prey to the lure of lust, it's the aftermath that is potentially most damaging for a woman.

If you do enjoy an evening of lust with a man, leave it at that. Yes, walk away. No matter how much you might thing you had a special connection or even if he told you that you were the most beautiful thing he ever saw, walk away. Don't take his number. Don't wait for him to call. What you had was lust. And confusing lust with love is no way to make a guy fall in love with you.

To learn more, click Fall in Love and learn Love Mistakes that 99% of women make without knowing.

This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

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