Has your guy not fallen in love with you yet? Do you wonder if it will ever happen? Are you struggling to know what to do to kick the relationship up a notch? The following bonding techniques will solve these questions and others you may be struggling with. They will make your guy fall in love with you as naturally as the sun rises in the morning.
Increase Emotional Bond
By making the emotional bond stronger between you, he will slowly become to depend on you and trust will be built. This trust is a breeding ground for true love. The bond is easily built through open communication.
One way to expand the emotional connection is to open up and share honest feelings with him. You don't want to sound flighty or whiny, however. Guys don't want to be with someone who gets overly emotional about little things. Instead of opening up about your roommate and how you think she secretly doesn't like you (which can be construed as a typical girl being super sensitive), talk to him about your goals, your fears, and more big-picture topics.
Increase Spiritual Bond
Studies have shown that friends or couples that pray together or go to religious services or activities together are more closely connected than those that don't. This is also an easy way to learn more about him, his family, and his upbringing. Even going to an outreach project or serving together in the community will strengthen this bond. When he is involved with multiple areas of your life, he will be more inclined to fall in love with you.
Decrease Physical Bond
This may seem counter-productive but it is absolutely imperative. Once a strong physical connection is made, it has a way of taking over the relationship and stunting the growth in other areas which lead to love. For that reason, it is better to grow the bonds in other areas before opening up Pandora's box; delay the sexual relationship for as long as possible. If you don't, deep down he will not 100% respect you and you can't truly love someone that you don't respect.
By working on these bonding areas, your relationship will blossom and move into the type of love that you have been desiring. Your guy will surely fall in love with you, and soon you'll be the girl that all your friends approach for dating advice.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
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